Surviving An Affair: Tips For A Woman

by admin on September 30, 2010

surviving an affairBeing married is one of the most wonderful experiences a person can have (as opposed to surviving an affair!). You go through that momentous day where you marry the person you think is your soul mate, the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with.

Unfortunately, not all couples end up with that perfect happy ending. One of the most common reasons for a split is infidelity. Often people realize after they get married, they are not attracted to the person anymore or they are not having enough sexual intercourse with that person or for whatever other reason they feel they need to stray. Being unfaithful is never okay, but if it happens there is no way to go back in time and the only thing you can do is figure out what move to make from here.

For any woman whose husband has been unfaithful, you may wonder what you should do next. You do not have to give up on your marriage and there are tips on surviving an affair you should learn. One tip to survive an affair sounds a lot easier than it is and that is to forgive. This seems pretty obvious but is actually the hardest and most important step.

If your husband tells you he has had an affair or—even worse—you find out on your own, you probably are experiencing feelings of anger, hate, jealousy and other intense emotions you may not even be able to classify. Give yourself some time to assess the situation and get over the shock of what has just happened. Even for women who thought something was going on, actually finding out your husband is being unfaithful is a huge blow.

For surviving an affair, you have to honestly and truly forgive your partner before you can expect to have success in getting over this and moving forward. If you are interested in surviving an affair and not just giving up on this person, after you forgive them you must start on the path to rebuilding your trust.

This is also extremely difficult and it is going to take time before you start to feel better and are not anxious and distrusting with everything they say to you. Have patience and do not feel bad if you find you are having difficulty with learning to trust him again. He should have no problem in giving you the time you need to get back to normal and regain your trust.

You can end up surviving an affair, no matter how horrible an act this was on his part. If you really think the relationship is worth it and believe he will not do it again, you can use these tips to help get you through the tough times. Once you have gone through the tough times, surviving an affair will no longer be as difficult.

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